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How to Manage the Loss of your Loved One

We cannot escape what happens to us when we lose a loved one. Some have already gone through the experience already. An example of such a situation is what happened to Ami Shroyer, who lost her unborn child, and then her husband shortly afterwards. No one should have to experience that kind of thing. It is however impossible since we shall all die one day. Those who knew us would feel the absence profoundly. It would be good if they were prepared for such an eventuality.

A lot happens when you lose a loved one that covering it all is not easy. You can, however, get advise on a few things that you can do when such a thing occurs. Some of them apply in almost all these situations.

You need to spare some time to express what you feel about the loss. Grief and sadness cannot be separated from such a loss. Let your emotions be free. Suppressing them is never a good idea.

You need to be open with such emotions. Be honest about what you are feeling. There is no shame in being in that particular state of mind. Those who feel like crying should feel free to do so. Crying induces some sense of relief. You therefore need to cry as much as you need to.

Look for someone you can trust, and share your feelings with them. It may be your best friend or a family member. It is ok to express your love and to miss of the person who just died. Share the fun times you had with them.

You also need to accept what you are feeling at this time. Emotions are usually critical at such times. Recognizing their presence is important in making you feel better.

You need to also be close to people who are facing similar challenges. It is usually comforting to be in the company of such people when you are all feeling the same things. It is therefore important to join a bereavement group in your local area.

In case the grief and sadness gets to a point where you can no longer function properly in your daily activities, you should seek professional help. You should not feel any shame, just courage for taking steps to bring your life back to normal.

Feeling too much grief can push someone to do things they should not be doing. Those are usually poor coping mechanisms. Some will bury themselves with work to shut out any pain. Others end up turning to substance abuse. It is therefore important to find a good coping mechanism to your grief and loss process.

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